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Hey Expat Partner,

Expat Partner Career Coach Heidi wants you to live a meaningful life.

So you can flourish in your own unique way!

Give your life a boost and start today if you don't feel satisfied.

You can start with the free download on top of this page.

It is filled with questions, it makes you think about your current life.

It can be the start of a change in your daily routines.

You can also read my blogs about living a life abroad. 

Expat Life

Expat life can be really nice and stressful at the same time.

Especially when you are the partner of the working International.

Many Expat Partners have to stop working when they cross borders.

Some like it, but many Expat Partners want to return to their job, at some point.

The fact that your own career is on hold for a while, is frustrating for many Expat Partners. 

You are at the right place if you are living abroad, and you want to live a meaningful life again.

Let me listen to your story so I can help you in the best possible way.

Connect with me if you want a free 15-minute call to find out what you need.

A career for all Expat Partners?

To become a happy Expat Partner, having a career is not always the solution.

Some Expat Partners just want to take care of their families, that is fine too!

After all, you have to feel satisfied and happy with your choices in life.

If you feel you need to change something:

Expat Partner Career coach Heidi will help you with your:

  • Job search

  • Networking in the Netherlands

  • LinkedIn profile

  • CV

  • Cultural challenges

  • Starting your own business, big or small

  • Educational Advice

  • Your next step in your career

Sukanya Krishnan on LinkedIn:

I interacted with Expat Partner career coach Heidi, to plan about my career in the Netherlands.

Until I met Heidi, I was almost convinced that homemaker takes the most out of me and I can never go back to work which I used to enjoy more.  Thanks to her guidance, motivation, inspiration, and support.

She really changed my view and within few weeks I became confident that I can go back if I want to, and also whenever I want to. She was very informative and energetic during our calls and ensured that my CV and LinkedIn profile are updated with most recent information. She also ensured that my profile looked professional, suitable and

at the same time attractive for my job hunt in the Netherlands.

The outcome of all her sincere and dedicated efforts is my current job, which I am most happy about!

But for Heidi, I would not have achieved it at all. She is a good mentor and guide for an expat partner, and provides the correct input! I strongly recommend her as the career coach for expat partners.

What the M&M’S sorting machine designer can teach Expat Partners

Geschreven door Heidi Los

This blog is about M&M’s and Expat Partners. More specific: it’s about the skills a machinedesigner can teach Expat Partners. Not technical but personal skills and persistence to let your dreams come to life! ‘Are you sure?’ Yes, I want to talk to you about what we can learn from the maker of the M&M’S sorting machine; let’s find out what he teaches us.  

What I don’t like about it…

First, let me sum up all the nonsense about it because the only thing I like about the M&M’S sorting machine is the process. You tell me. What is the point of having a sorting machine for M&M’S?

Having a machine that sorts out green with green, blue with blue and yellow with yellow? That is really important and life changing?  No. Sorry. I don’t see the point. A Dutch student spent a rough 500 hours of time and effort on the whole process. That is quite an amazing amount of hours in my opinion; at least for something ridiculous.

To begin with, from an environmental standpoint, I really hope this machine will not be taken into production. Who will buy it anyway? If you consider buying such a machine, keep in mind that is likely to end up on the pile of other gadgets you only used once or twice. The planet does not need this.

Next, there is the fact that the machine is taking away a fun activity while eating the M&M’S. For some of us, eating M&M’S is not just about tossing them into our mouths.  For those who tend to be perfectionists or who have (a milder version of) OCD, there is a technique to it.  Do they eat one at a time, two of the same color, only odd numbers of different colors?   Also, for children, the machine would take away yet another form of playing –  a fun way of learning to count, learning about colours and choosing. What colour first; which one to keep for last? There is no opportunity for that with the sorting machine. No, I don’t want that machine.

This is what I like about it…

What I do like about this whole thing is the dream this student had as a little boy. A machine that could sort out the colors was a magical thought to him. It was a dream and he made it happen! That’s what I like; having a dream or goal and focusing on it until you get the solution or end result – reaching the destination. Finally being able to say, ‘I did it! YES!’

To devote all of the time and energy to that one project, using all of those skills like statistics, writing software and -of course- the design. Working with 3D printers, collaborating with others, pressing on after failure, fine-tuning the process and becoming the best machine in the end. Oh my, so many things he learned during this process.

It is an inspiring thing – knowing that he made his dreams come alive. He took a boy’s dream to the next level. That is what he did. That is a wonderful thing to me.

Chapeau to Willem Pennings!

So, what can we learn from M&M’s?

Referring to the title, what can we learn from this M&M’S sorting machine; or better yet, from Willem?
This is what he can be credited with doing:

 1       Making dreams come true

 2       Developing skills

 3       Using skills

 4       Developing a new product

 5       Building something new

 6       Learning new things

 7       Improving himself

 8       Just doing it

 9       Finding funds

10      Convincing bystanders

11      Completing something

12      Organizing his time well

13      Focusing in order to accomplish things

14      Pressing on until the end!

Wow, that is a long list full of skills and I bet you can add more!

Now, what about you?

As Expat Partners, we sometimes have so much time that we forget to get into action. We sort of ‘walk away’ from our talents. Most of us have pretty good reasons for that. Some Expat Partners complain that they have no time at all for anything. Either way,  does that lead you to a happier you? Do you feel your life is satisfying and meaningful? If you feel a lack of satisfaction, I have some questions for you:

What kind of action taken by Willem sticks out to you most?

What sort action do you lack?

Is there something you should give more attention to in life, to reach a happier state of being?

What would you like to do with this insight? Or better:

Starting today, what will you do with this insight ?

What I can do for you Expat Partner…

In a one-hour appointment, I can help you find answers to these questions, and, believe me, I guarantee it. I will put you to action! Not that I want more machines like this, but I want your dreams to come true and motivate you to start.

It’s all about using your talents and getting into action. 
If you know me, you know that I can’t stand to see unused talent.
If you feel you need that kick, give it a try and call me (today!).

Here is the link to the video about the machine, with technical details.

: Looking forward to discuss this with you!

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